Monday, July 22, 2013

you

The main place for Truth is the Tongue,  Love resides in the Heart, and Compassion lives in one’s Eyes.
If someone asks, what is the definition of Truth, then stay Quiet; this is the Illustration of Truth.
If someone asks, to define Love, then Laugh a Little; this itself is Love.
If someone asks , to explain Compassion, then let our Eyes Moisten; this is the meaning of Compassion ~ ♥




 Every second brings
A fresh beginning,
Every hour holds
A new promise,
Every night our dreams
Can bring hope and
Every day is what you

The Power of Intention ~ BY JANET BRAY ATTWOOD



Every single manmade creation you can see was once just an idea in someone’s mind – an idea that became a reality . If you want to create the life of your dreams, it begins by writing your dreams down and becoming as clear as possible about them.

The power of intention and attention is what brings ideas into concrete form. When you have intention and attention with no tension, then the whole process becomes fun.

Your Intentions Should Match Your Passion

For most people, creations are unconscious, and so they view themselves as the victims of their situations and circumstances.

However, successful people know the secret—they create their reality from what they put their intention on.

Some people state intentions and then are perplexed when the results in their life don’t match their stated intentions. Why would this happen?

Here is a secret that could be worth a lifetime of fulfillment to you, so pay close attention:

Your results will always match your true intentions.

Your life will always express what is going on deep inside you. Therefore, if your results are out of line with your stated intentions, it’s time to do some self-examination.

Where Do Your True Intentions Lie?

Some years ago we partnered with some friends to create a business. Together we stated our intention to generate $10 million in revenues and over $2 million in profits the first year. A year later we were $100,000 in debt after generating $1 million in revenues.

We stated our intentions clearly, we made a detailed plan, we executed the plan, and we worked our tails off. What went wrong?

Later when we looked back over that time, we realized that our real intention was to make our partners happy by agreeing to what they wanted. There were many times when we felt something should be done differently, but because we believed they were more experienced in that arena, we decided it wasn’t our place to change the way things were done.

In the short term, we did make them happy. We did things they liked, but in the end all of us were disappointed in the results.

Your results will always match your true intentions.

This means that if you want to know what is going on at the deepest level of your life and where your passion lies, look to your results. When your results are out of line with your stated intentions, look more deeply to discover your real intentions. Then work on realigning your real intentions to change your results, and the way you experience life.

When your actions are aligned with your intentions you will create your world out of those intentions.

If you or someone you know has experienced a similar enlightening experience I encourage you to leave a comment and share your eye-opening moment.

Discover Your True Calling, and Begin Living The Life You Were Destined For







Seven Keys to Living a Passionate Life~ BY JANET BRAY ATTWOOD



When I was young, I used to wait until everyone in my family was asleep and then I would tiptoe out the front door and dance for hours and hours under the streetlights. This was a magical time for me, it was here that I allowed my dreams to take form as I would dance and sing and perform and pretend that I was the greatest actress of all time.

I remember the sadness in my heart as I would emerge from my magical time under the street lights and tiptoe back into my house and once again enter the world where dreams were thought to be only for the faint hearted.

Regardless of my parent’s inability to believe that all of us were meant to live a life of passion, I never doubted the fact for one moment.

After having an incredibly tumultuous childhood and even more traumatic teen years, I emerged from my challenges with the dogged determination to live a life of purpose. From my own diligent daily practice I found that to live a life of passion came about effortlessly when I simply clarified what my passions were, then consciously put my attention on my passions, took strategic action, and, after I had done all that I knew to do to make my passions a reality, I simply let go. This formula worked so well, it was the basis for my book, “The Passion Test – The Effortless Path To Discovering Your Life Purpose.”

The Passion Test is a simple powerful process that can help anyone clarify the five things that matter most to them, and then make those things the priority in their life. As I have worked with thousands of people, taking them through The Passion Test process to help them discover their passions, there are seven keys which have emerged as essential to living a passionate life:

1. Commitment

Until you are committed, nothing will happen for you. There is nothing more important to creating your passionate life than your unshakable commitment to choosing in favor of your passions. Every day you will be asked to put other things ahead of the things you love most. Keep your passions where you can see them, and learn to say “no” lovingly. Here’s one line you can practice:

“I so appreciate your asking, and I’m not able to do that now.”

Be sure to use “and” rather than “but.” “And” connects you with the other person, while “but” separates.

Vary the words to make them appropriate. Just remember to first appreciate, love, understand, and value the other person, then state what you need.

Lastly, keep in mind point #4 below (Stay Open). What’s most important may shift temporarily in the light of urgent circumstances.

2. Clarity

When you are clear, what you want will show up in your life, and only to the extent you are clear. Fuzzy desires give fuzzy results. Gaining clarity is not a one-time experience; it’s an ongoing process. Take The Passion Test™ at least every six months and review your Markers and Passion Pages at least once a year.

3. Attention

What you put your attention on grows stronger in your life. Pay attention every day, every moment to what you are putting your attention on. You will attract all the people, places and things you need to create those things to which you give attention. As you shift your focus to all the good, which is flowing into your life, watch how your life is transformed.

4. Stay Open

Your greatest good may not be what you think it is. When you are open to whatever is appearing now, even if it’s different than the way you think it should be, you release your individual will and open to God’s will for you.

This is the path to living your highest purpose in life. This is also the secret to overcoming any obstacle that may arise in your life. When disaster strikes and you are open, you are able to take advantage of the opportunities that inevitably present themselves.

5. Integrity

Be as true to yourself as you are to others, and as true to others as you are to yourself. The biggest challenge most of us face is to meet our responsibilities to others while pursuing our passions at the same time.

When you make commitments to others, make sure those commitments are aligned with your passions. Once you make commitments, keep them. If something else comes up, talk to the other person and ask their permission to renegotiate your commitment. If they aren’t willing or able to make the necessary change, then keep your commitment as you originally made it, even if it’s uncomfortable.

Do this a few times and you will become more careful about the commitments you make. And treat yourself with the same respect. When you make a commitment to yourself, treat it in the same way you would treat your commitment to another. That includes being willing to renegotiate your commitment when new circumstances arise.

6. Persistence

Many begin the journey. Those who finish it are the ones who achieve success and fulfillment in life. In his classic book, Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill tells the story of the man who bought property with the intention of mining gold. He discovered what appeared to be a massive vein. He went out and purchased the machinery to mine the gold, but before he made any significant profits, the vein dried up. He dug and dug, and then finally, he gave up and sold the property and machinery for a few hundred dollars to a junk dealer.

That dealer consulted an expert who showed him the previous owner had failed because he didn’t understand the nature of fault lines. The expert told the new owner he would find the vein again, not far beyond where the digging had previously stopped. The new owner followed this expert advice, and sure enough, found millions of dollars in gold, just three feet beyond where the previous owner had stopped digging.

When you’re living life truly aligned with your passions, persistence is not hard. You will find you can’t stop, even if you want to. Your deepest passions will drive you, in spite of yourself.

7. Follow Your Heart

When all else fails, listen to your heart. Passion emerges from the heart, not from the mind. When you feel confused, or lost, or don’t know which direction to head, then just start walking and pay attention to what your heart tells you. Do what you love, follow your heart’s direction and the path to fulfillment in life will naturally unfold before you.

Above all else, remember the secret that guarantees a passionate life: “Whenever you are faced with a choice, a decision or an opportunity, choose in favor of your passions.”

The Secret That Guarantees a Passionate Life ~ BY JANET BRAY ATTWOOD



“Whenever you are faced with a choice a decision or an opportunity, choose in favor of your passions.”

But there is a stumbling block many people trip over on their way to creating the life of their dreams: Their own thoughts.

“What you see you become” is a quote from a Vedic text from ancient India. It doesn’t mean when you see a donkey you become a donkey.

It means that what you perceive is filtered through the thoughts you have about that thing. Your thoughts, your beliefs, the concepts and ideas you hold about your life and what is experienced in that life are what determine how you experience life.

You see your life can be filled with miracles—if you believe it can. Your life can also be a tragedy, if that’s what you believe it is.

The way to create miracles in your life is strengthen your belief that miracles are possible. Find the evidence. Your mind is a wonderful machine. If you give it enough evidence that something is possible, it will become possible for you.

So, let’s give you some evidence, in the story below, of the possibility of miracles when you learn to choose in favor of your passions, the things that matter most to you (by the way, if you don’t know what your passions are, start by taking our Passion Profile Self-Assessment at www.thepassiontestprofile.comit’s a simple way to see if you are living a passionate life).

I had spoken at one of Jack Canfield’s seminars for his advanced students and was on our way home via the Los Angeles airport. I dropped off our rental car and took the shuttle to the airport.

As the shuttle pulled away from the curb after letting us off, Chris suddenly realized he was missing one of his bags with all his clothes in it. Unable to catch the shuttle, he spent the next 40 minutes calling the rental car company, stopping every shuttle from the rental car company that came by and doing everything he could think of to get his suitcase back.

Finally, the time came when he either had to get on the plane or stay and wait for his suitcase. It was time to either “fish or cut bait” when it came to following his passions.

So, Chris asked himself, “Does staying in L.A. and waiting for my suitcase help me be more aligned with my passions, or will it take me farther away from living my passions?”

One of Chris’ passions is having fun with everything he does. He had a teleconference to lead that evening. If he stayed in L.A. he would not only have to look for his suitcase but find someplace where he could set up his computer and conduct that teleconference. It didn’t sound like much fun to him.

Another of his top passions is living a life of abundance on every level. When he thought about which made him feel more abundant, waiting around the L.A. airport and searching for someplace to do his teleconference, or having a leisurely trip home without worrying about his suitcase, the choice was clear.

As he came up to the gate to get on the airplane, I was overjoyed. “I knew you would find your suitcase!” I exclaimed. “I didn’t,” Chris replied, and then we both started laughing.

We had a fun trip home and Chris lead a great teleconference that night. The next day, the airline called saying, “The police dropped off a suitcase here with your name on it. What would you like us to do with it?”

“Could you put it on a plane to San Francisco for me?” Chris asked. After checking, the agent came back on the line and said, “No problem.” A few hours later Chris had his suitcase.

Now, this certainly doesn’t count as a major miracle, but it’s a wonderful small one. And this story illustrates several points that are key about living a passionate life and creating the kind of life you really choose to live:

Your Thoughts Determine Your Happiness

Chris believed that it was more important to have fun and feel abundant than to worry about his suitcase. As a result, he had fun and he felt abundant. As an added bonus (and this is common when you follow your passions), he got his suitcase back as well without effort or strain.

Take a Leap of Faith

Your beliefs and thoughts affect how you experience anything in your life (“what you see you become”), but you can never know what specific outcomes will occur. This is why following your passion is so important. No matter what the result, you will have enjoyed the process. Chris had no idea whether he would ever see his suitcase again when he made his decision to go home.

Stay Open and Live A Passionate Life

Because you can’t know the outcome, staying open to what is appearing is absolutely essential. When you are open then you are ready to welcome the unexpected gifts that will show up in your life.

Be Courageous, Follow Your Passions

Because you have to make the decision to follow your passion when you don’t know what the outcome will be, you have to make a leap of faith. When Chris decided to leave his suitcase behind to follow his passions, he had to be prepared to never see that suitcase again.

In The Passion Test, you’ll read the story of my passion to go to India and interview the enlightened, and how I gave it all up to be with my dying stepmother. I made that decision with the knowledge that I might never be able to fulfill my passion to do those interviews. Of course, as it turned out, it was being with my stepmother that was key to me being able to follow that passion.

Don’t fall for the myth that the world is an “objective” reality that you can’t change. This is an illusion that leads to feeling like a victim. And guess what, if you believe you are a victim of your circumstances, you will be.

Funny how that works….

Change your beliefs about what you experience and you will change your life. You are powerful. It’s now up to you to claim your power










Feelings...


 I want a life that sizzles, and pops, and makes me laugh out loud. 
And, I don't want to get to the end, or to tomorrow, even, 
and realize that my life is a collection of meetings, and pop cans, 
and errands, and receipts, and dirty dishes.
I want to eat cold tangerines, 
and sing out loud in the car, with the windows open, 
and wear pink shoes, dance in the rain, and stay up all night laughing, 
and paint my walls the exact color of the sky, right now. 
I want to sleep hard on clean white sheets, and throw parties, 
and eat ripe cherry tomatoes, 
and read books so good, they make me jump up and down, 
and I want my everyday to make God belly laugh, 
glad that he gave life to someone who loves the gift."
— Shauna Niequist


Figuring myself out one day at a time. I have an overwhelming desire to wake up an optimist every single day. My favorite color is any shade of blue you can imagine. I believe in world peace♥




“Whenever you are faced with a choice a decision or an opportunity,
 choose in favor of your passions.”But there is a stumbling block many people trip over on their way to creating the life of their dreams: Their own thoughts.“What you see you become” is a quote from a Vedic text from ancient India. It doesn’t mean when you see a donkey you become a donkey.It means that what you perceive is filtered through the thoughts you have about that thing. Your thoughts, your beliefs, the concepts and ideas you hold about your life and what is experienced in that life are what determine how you experience life.
You see your life can be filled with miracles—if you believe it can. Your life can also be a tragedy, i f that’s what you believe it is.
Don’t let mental blocks control you. Set yourself free. Confront your fear and turn the mental blocks into building blocks.
.” 
― Roopleen, Words to inspire the winner in YOU



Did my courage make you crazy? Cripple you with the unknown?
Did my silence create desire—make you feel things you could not discern?
Is my shinning light exploding? Can your eyes not yet adjust?
Is my forgiveness running through you? Knowing your pain I will not digest?
Is my confidence disrupting the girl you LOVE to HATE the most?” 
― Coco J. Ginger




“But love is always new. Regardless of whether we love once, twice, or a dozen times in our life, we always face a brand-new situation. Love can consign us to hell or to paradise, but it always takes us somewhere. We simply have to accept it, because it is what nourishes our existence. If we reject it, we die of hunger, because we lack the courage to stretch out a hand and pluck the fruit from the branches of the tree of life. We have to take love where we find it, even if that means hours, days, weeks of disappointment and sadness.

The moment we begin to seek love, love begins to seek us. And to save us.”
— Paulo Coelho By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept





She was glad to have been the first to reveal to those people the evil hidden in the depths of their false, ingenuous souls. They were all dreaming of the chance to commit a murder – only dreaming, mind you, because they would never actually do anything. They would spend the rest of their lives asleep, endlessly telling themselves how noble they were, how incapable of committing an injustice, ready to defend the village’s dignity at whatever cost, yet aware that terror alone had prevented them from killing an innocent. They would congratulate themselves every morning on keeping their integrity, and blame themselves each night for that missed opportunity.







Playing the part of a charitable soul was only for those who were afraid of taking a stand in life. It is always far easier to have faith in your own goodness than to confront others and fight for your rights. It is always easier to hear an insult and not retaliate than have the courage to fight back against someone stronger than yourself; we can always say we’re not hurt by the stones others throw at us, and it’s only at night – when we’re alone and our wife or our husband or our school friend is asleep – that we can silently grieve over our own cowardice.”





“She had just realized there were two things that prevent us from achieving our dreams: believing them to be impossible or seeing those dreams made possible by some sudden turn of the wheel of fortune, when you least expected it. For at that moment, all our fears suddenly surface: the fear of setting off along a road heading who knows where, the fear of a life full of new challenges, the fear of losing forever everything that is familiar.”




 There is no tragedy, only the unavoidable. Everything has its reason for being: you only need to distinguish what is temporary from what is lasting. What is temporary?… The unavoidable… and what is lasting?… The lessons of the unavoidable.”





Profound commitment to a dream does not confine or constrain: it liberates. Even a difficult, winding path can lead to your goal if you follow to the end.”
~ Maktub




 Never abandon your dreams. Follow the signs.”  The Alchemist



Open your heart and listen to what it is telling you. Follow your dreams, because only a man who is unashamed of himself can manifest the glory of God.” The Valkyries






Cowards never allow their hearts to blaze with this fire: all they desire is for the changed situation to quickly return to what it was before, so they can go on living their lives and thinking in their customary way. The brave however, set afire that which was old and, even a the cost of great internal suffering, abandon everything and continue onward.”




Inside myself is a place where I live all alone and that is where I renew my springs that never dry up.
 ~ Pearl S. Buck







Heartbreak




Heartbreak is frequently the end product of an unfulfilled desire or craving, the outcome of unrealistic expectations, where another person or some material pursuit is worshipped or idolised. It can also be the result of an inability to forgive and let go of those who have sinned against us."Keep and guard your heart with all vigilance and above all that you guard (your heart), for out of it flows the springs of life." (Proverbs 4:23).Varying degrees of damage to the human spirit can be incurred. For a small minority of the wounded the damage is only slight; they are able to get on with their lives with the hurt causing only a minimum of irritation or inconvenience. Many more of the wounded are more affected and limp through life. They survive a relatively normal life but fail to realise their full potential in their friendships, in their marriages or in their day to day relationships with others. Then there are those with extreme or severe damage to their spirit. These people are greatly incapacitated; dysfunctional with all manner of emotional, psychological, physical and social disabilities. These people are forced to crawl or need to be carried through life.
"My heart is broken within me" 

poem




And when 
   he lays a finger on my skin

             I crack;
         I burn.

                      I’m not there.
#poetry #*

some words some thoughts


I want to run with reckless emotion,
find out if love is, the size of the ocean.
Even if I crash and burn,
at least I'll know what it's like to feel alive.



I may still not know what I want to be when I grow up,
but I do know that someday I want to live
in a house filled with my books and travel souvenirs.
And the walls that aren't covered in bookshelves
will be covered with photos of my family and friends.
When I leave the house I will be going to a job I love,
and I'll return to a person I love.
So, that's my dream I'm working on.

-Amber Morley




 Life

No one knows how
Or understand why
But even when we are on our own
We find strength to live another day

We go through good and bad
We are happy but more often sad
Feeling alive is the reason we wake up
Nothing feels worse than giving up

And nothing feels better
Than being alive
And life fills our minds
With so much goodness

I might not have known before
But to be alive is the best thing there is
And I want to thank all of you
Because you are the reason I know that now

And because of you I also know
Exactly what to do
To tell the world, to spread the word
Of the happy gospel of life


Words Not Spoken
© Beatrice Boyle
Although he could not say with words
The love he felt inside
He treasured every moment
And his heart would fill with pride
He never said I love you
But he came to every game
Even in defeat his son knew
He loved him just the same
He'd pat him on the head
Or maybe ruffle his hair
And tell him he was proud of him
As long as he played fair
When he graduated college
I love you wasn't said
He smiled as he shook his hand
Mumbling, well done, my boy instead
When his son went to war
He trembled as he spoke
And brushing away the tears
He made a little joke

Now, his son's come home
And he stands with eyes downcast
His hands stroking the coffin
Saying I love you son at last!



There are no rules
No checklists
No regulations
To love

So stop holding 
Yourself accountable

I did this and that….
The list goes on and on
Forever and ever
So forget the list

Just live life

It’ll come back
Love will return
Just don’t concern
Yourself with that fact
#poetry #spilled ink
8:53pm, 2 Jul - Riju Sharma: Love is Love

Who ever did say
We weren’t meant to be this way.
Who ever did decide
What’s right
Who ever did call
Love an abomination.
Who ever you are
You need your head checked.
We can be who we want.
We can love who we want.
No love is ever an abomination
Love is Love.
Nothing more
Nothing less.

- Sakshi J



Shielding Yourself from Negativity-

 
 
 
 
1- On your smart phones, download wisdom quotes and other personality enhancement applications from relevant app libraries / stores and read them often. Keep trying new applications every week.
2- 'Like' Facebook pages such as Positively Positive, Wisdom quotes, Positive thoughts etc to start receiving daily dose of wisdom.
3- Stay away from negative souls. They are consistently polluting your brain. Check if you are surrounded by such people who criticize things all the times. If yes, change your company.
4- If you notice that a discussion is going negative more and more, try changing the topic towards something exciting, healthy and fruitful.
5- If your family members are negative and you do not have a choice to leave them, then you must program yourself to deal with such consistent negative situation. For example, upon a disheartening comment from your brother  you can say "OK brother, you have a great point" Say it then laugh inside your heart and shun the comment immediately. This skill requires some practice but once properly implemented, will generate a powerful impact on your personality. 
6- Keep telling yourself that you can make things happen. Believe in yourself and you will see that your subconscious mind will find out a way to make things happen actually.

Speed Limits on the Cosmic Highway -by Janet Bray Attwood


How long it takes you to fulfill your dreams is directly related to your beliefs. There was a time when Donald Trump almost went bankrupt, yet not long after he was a billionaire again. How is that possible?
If you made a million dollars in the next year, would you consider that a good year? What do you think Donald Trump would think if he only made a million dollars in the coming year? He’d most likely think the year was a huge failure, wouldn’t he? The key difference between you and Donald is the beliefs you hold in your abilities.

What are the beliefs you hold about your ability to live your passions?

Here are some we hear:
• I can’t make money from the things I’m passionate about
• I don’t have the skills to be really successful
• I don’t know enough
• I’m too old. It’s too late for me
No matter who you are, no matter what your situation, no matter what your handicaps, thinking that these things prevent you from living your passions are all simply false ideas, false concepts, and false beliefs. These are thoughts you hold that are simply not true. They are out of sync with reality.

When you feel truly passionate about something, you will always have the ability to create it in your life.

Is it true you can’t make money from living your passions?  Would you ever believe that someone could make money from a passion for sitting around and chatting with people?  Oprah Winfrey seems to have done pretty well with that one. What about a passion for baking cookies?  Mrs. Fields seems to have managed that one.  How about a passion for watching movies?  Roger Ebert figured that one out.

What is stopping you from living your passions?

You are powerful beyond your imagination. You have created your life, and the good news is, if you don’t like it you can change it. You’re too old?  Do you know that most millionaires are made after the age of fifty-five?  While he cooked chicken for years, it wasn’t until Colonel Sanders was sixty-two that he started Kentucky Fried Chicken.
No matter what limiting belief you hold, there is evidence in the world to the contrary.  Even if there is no one who has ever done what you are passionate about doing, there is abundant evidence of people who have been successfully doing what others thought was impossible.

Your life is created first in your mind then in the world.

As long as you believe you can’t, you won’t be able to.  As long as you believe it’s not possible, it won’t be possible for you.  As long as you believe it’s too hard, it will be too hard for you. So does that mean the opposite is also true, that as long as you believe you can, you’ll be able to?  Yes, and it’s not so simple, because our beliefs run deep.  You can say, “I can do it,” and still not believe you can, deep inside.  This is why affirmations often don’t produce the results we’d like them to.
Keep looking for evidence until you can feel it deep inside and find your purpose in life.  “Of course I can do it.  Look at all the other people who have done it, look at all the evidence there is that this is possible.” This is your first and most important task in living your passions. 

Overcome your fears and live your passions with trust.

As you investigate the thoughts that make you feel afraid, that make you feel unworthy, that make you feel unlovable, you will discover something new growing in you: trust.
Your speed on the cosmic highway is directly related to your ability to trust in the benevolence of the universe.
Change your mind about what you choose to experience in your life.
What feels better, to believe that you are alone in the world, that you have to struggle and strain to get ahead, or to believe you are surrounded by a benevolent universe that is constantly giving you gifts? What feels better, to believe life is hard and difficult and disappointing, or to believe that life is an adventure, an opportunity to explore your own true nature?
When you begin to look for evidence that life is ultimately kind, you will start to find that evidence. When you begin to look for reasons to believe that every experience is a blessing, you will start to find those reasons.
As you begin to embrace the idea that life is here for your joy, that every moment is a gift, showing you the path to fulfillment, you will discover magic happening in your life.

7 Tips to Attain Peace of Mind (By Junaid Tahir)



When you were child you had a pure mind; the mind which was free from worries and anxieties. As the time passed, you were influenced by several social, personal, familial and official crises such as financial complications, broken relationship, lack of trust, joblessness, failure in business, loss of respect and so on. When the mind is stressful, the associated germs of negativity, jealousy and pessimism add fuel to fire and hence your pure mind becomes impure. These impurities if taken out can bring back the mental purity hence real spirit of joy of childhood can be attained up to an adequate level.  Off course you cannot fix all of your problem at once but you can train your mind to develop the skills which can help either bypass or overcome the depressed  and tragic situations so as to give you a big time relaxation while you focus on the solution to your problems. Below are some techniques which can be used to combat the peace stealing triggers: