Monday, July 22, 2013

Feelings...


 I want a life that sizzles, and pops, and makes me laugh out loud. 
And, I don't want to get to the end, or to tomorrow, even, 
and realize that my life is a collection of meetings, and pop cans, 
and errands, and receipts, and dirty dishes.
I want to eat cold tangerines, 
and sing out loud in the car, with the windows open, 
and wear pink shoes, dance in the rain, and stay up all night laughing, 
and paint my walls the exact color of the sky, right now. 
I want to sleep hard on clean white sheets, and throw parties, 
and eat ripe cherry tomatoes, 
and read books so good, they make me jump up and down, 
and I want my everyday to make God belly laugh, 
glad that he gave life to someone who loves the gift."
— Shauna Niequist


Figuring myself out one day at a time. I have an overwhelming desire to wake up an optimist every single day. My favorite color is any shade of blue you can imagine. I believe in world peace♥




“Whenever you are faced with a choice a decision or an opportunity,
 choose in favor of your passions.”But there is a stumbling block many people trip over on their way to creating the life of their dreams: Their own thoughts.“What you see you become” is a quote from a Vedic text from ancient India. It doesn’t mean when you see a donkey you become a donkey.It means that what you perceive is filtered through the thoughts you have about that thing. Your thoughts, your beliefs, the concepts and ideas you hold about your life and what is experienced in that life are what determine how you experience life.
You see your life can be filled with miracles—if you believe it can. Your life can also be a tragedy, i f that’s what you believe it is.
Don’t let mental blocks control you. Set yourself free. Confront your fear and turn the mental blocks into building blocks.
.” 
― Roopleen, Words to inspire the winner in YOU



Did my courage make you crazy? Cripple you with the unknown?
Did my silence create desire—make you feel things you could not discern?
Is my shinning light exploding? Can your eyes not yet adjust?
Is my forgiveness running through you? Knowing your pain I will not digest?
Is my confidence disrupting the girl you LOVE to HATE the most?” 
― Coco J. Ginger




“But love is always new. Regardless of whether we love once, twice, or a dozen times in our life, we always face a brand-new situation. Love can consign us to hell or to paradise, but it always takes us somewhere. We simply have to accept it, because it is what nourishes our existence. If we reject it, we die of hunger, because we lack the courage to stretch out a hand and pluck the fruit from the branches of the tree of life. We have to take love where we find it, even if that means hours, days, weeks of disappointment and sadness.

The moment we begin to seek love, love begins to seek us. And to save us.”
— Paulo Coelho By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept





She was glad to have been the first to reveal to those people the evil hidden in the depths of their false, ingenuous souls. They were all dreaming of the chance to commit a murder – only dreaming, mind you, because they would never actually do anything. They would spend the rest of their lives asleep, endlessly telling themselves how noble they were, how incapable of committing an injustice, ready to defend the village’s dignity at whatever cost, yet aware that terror alone had prevented them from killing an innocent. They would congratulate themselves every morning on keeping their integrity, and blame themselves each night for that missed opportunity.







Playing the part of a charitable soul was only for those who were afraid of taking a stand in life. It is always far easier to have faith in your own goodness than to confront others and fight for your rights. It is always easier to hear an insult and not retaliate than have the courage to fight back against someone stronger than yourself; we can always say we’re not hurt by the stones others throw at us, and it’s only at night – when we’re alone and our wife or our husband or our school friend is asleep – that we can silently grieve over our own cowardice.”





“She had just realized there were two things that prevent us from achieving our dreams: believing them to be impossible or seeing those dreams made possible by some sudden turn of the wheel of fortune, when you least expected it. For at that moment, all our fears suddenly surface: the fear of setting off along a road heading who knows where, the fear of a life full of new challenges, the fear of losing forever everything that is familiar.”




 There is no tragedy, only the unavoidable. Everything has its reason for being: you only need to distinguish what is temporary from what is lasting. What is temporary?… The unavoidable… and what is lasting?… The lessons of the unavoidable.”





Profound commitment to a dream does not confine or constrain: it liberates. Even a difficult, winding path can lead to your goal if you follow to the end.”
~ Maktub




 Never abandon your dreams. Follow the signs.”  The Alchemist



Open your heart and listen to what it is telling you. Follow your dreams, because only a man who is unashamed of himself can manifest the glory of God.” The Valkyries






Cowards never allow their hearts to blaze with this fire: all they desire is for the changed situation to quickly return to what it was before, so they can go on living their lives and thinking in their customary way. The brave however, set afire that which was old and, even a the cost of great internal suffering, abandon everything and continue onward.”




Inside myself is a place where I live all alone and that is where I renew my springs that never dry up.
 ~ Pearl S. Buck







Heartbreak




Heartbreak is frequently the end product of an unfulfilled desire or craving, the outcome of unrealistic expectations, where another person or some material pursuit is worshipped or idolised. It can also be the result of an inability to forgive and let go of those who have sinned against us."Keep and guard your heart with all vigilance and above all that you guard (your heart), for out of it flows the springs of life." (Proverbs 4:23).Varying degrees of damage to the human spirit can be incurred. For a small minority of the wounded the damage is only slight; they are able to get on with their lives with the hurt causing only a minimum of irritation or inconvenience. Many more of the wounded are more affected and limp through life. They survive a relatively normal life but fail to realise their full potential in their friendships, in their marriages or in their day to day relationships with others. Then there are those with extreme or severe damage to their spirit. These people are greatly incapacitated; dysfunctional with all manner of emotional, psychological, physical and social disabilities. These people are forced to crawl or need to be carried through life.
"My heart is broken within me" 

poem




And when 
   he lays a finger on my skin

             I crack;
         I burn.

                      I’m not there.
#poetry #*

some words some thoughts


I want to run with reckless emotion,
find out if love is, the size of the ocean.
Even if I crash and burn,
at least I'll know what it's like to feel alive.



I may still not know what I want to be when I grow up,
but I do know that someday I want to live
in a house filled with my books and travel souvenirs.
And the walls that aren't covered in bookshelves
will be covered with photos of my family and friends.
When I leave the house I will be going to a job I love,
and I'll return to a person I love.
So, that's my dream I'm working on.

-Amber Morley




 Life

No one knows how
Or understand why
But even when we are on our own
We find strength to live another day

We go through good and bad
We are happy but more often sad
Feeling alive is the reason we wake up
Nothing feels worse than giving up

And nothing feels better
Than being alive
And life fills our minds
With so much goodness

I might not have known before
But to be alive is the best thing there is
And I want to thank all of you
Because you are the reason I know that now

And because of you I also know
Exactly what to do
To tell the world, to spread the word
Of the happy gospel of life


Words Not Spoken
© Beatrice Boyle
Although he could not say with words
The love he felt inside
He treasured every moment
And his heart would fill with pride
He never said I love you
But he came to every game
Even in defeat his son knew
He loved him just the same
He'd pat him on the head
Or maybe ruffle his hair
And tell him he was proud of him
As long as he played fair
When he graduated college
I love you wasn't said
He smiled as he shook his hand
Mumbling, well done, my boy instead
When his son went to war
He trembled as he spoke
And brushing away the tears
He made a little joke

Now, his son's come home
And he stands with eyes downcast
His hands stroking the coffin
Saying I love you son at last!



There are no rules
No checklists
No regulations
To love

So stop holding 
Yourself accountable

I did this and that….
The list goes on and on
Forever and ever
So forget the list

Just live life

It’ll come back
Love will return
Just don’t concern
Yourself with that fact
#poetry #spilled ink
8:53pm, 2 Jul - Riju Sharma: Love is Love

Who ever did say
We weren’t meant to be this way.
Who ever did decide
What’s right
Who ever did call
Love an abomination.
Who ever you are
You need your head checked.
We can be who we want.
We can love who we want.
No love is ever an abomination
Love is Love.
Nothing more
Nothing less.

- Sakshi J



Shielding Yourself from Negativity-

 
 
 
 
1- On your smart phones, download wisdom quotes and other personality enhancement applications from relevant app libraries / stores and read them often. Keep trying new applications every week.
2- 'Like' Facebook pages such as Positively Positive, Wisdom quotes, Positive thoughts etc to start receiving daily dose of wisdom.
3- Stay away from negative souls. They are consistently polluting your brain. Check if you are surrounded by such people who criticize things all the times. If yes, change your company.
4- If you notice that a discussion is going negative more and more, try changing the topic towards something exciting, healthy and fruitful.
5- If your family members are negative and you do not have a choice to leave them, then you must program yourself to deal with such consistent negative situation. For example, upon a disheartening comment from your brother  you can say "OK brother, you have a great point" Say it then laugh inside your heart and shun the comment immediately. This skill requires some practice but once properly implemented, will generate a powerful impact on your personality. 
6- Keep telling yourself that you can make things happen. Believe in yourself and you will see that your subconscious mind will find out a way to make things happen actually.

Speed Limits on the Cosmic Highway -by Janet Bray Attwood


How long it takes you to fulfill your dreams is directly related to your beliefs. There was a time when Donald Trump almost went bankrupt, yet not long after he was a billionaire again. How is that possible?
If you made a million dollars in the next year, would you consider that a good year? What do you think Donald Trump would think if he only made a million dollars in the coming year? He’d most likely think the year was a huge failure, wouldn’t he? The key difference between you and Donald is the beliefs you hold in your abilities.

What are the beliefs you hold about your ability to live your passions?

Here are some we hear:
• I can’t make money from the things I’m passionate about
• I don’t have the skills to be really successful
• I don’t know enough
• I’m too old. It’s too late for me
No matter who you are, no matter what your situation, no matter what your handicaps, thinking that these things prevent you from living your passions are all simply false ideas, false concepts, and false beliefs. These are thoughts you hold that are simply not true. They are out of sync with reality.

When you feel truly passionate about something, you will always have the ability to create it in your life.

Is it true you can’t make money from living your passions?  Would you ever believe that someone could make money from a passion for sitting around and chatting with people?  Oprah Winfrey seems to have done pretty well with that one. What about a passion for baking cookies?  Mrs. Fields seems to have managed that one.  How about a passion for watching movies?  Roger Ebert figured that one out.

What is stopping you from living your passions?

You are powerful beyond your imagination. You have created your life, and the good news is, if you don’t like it you can change it. You’re too old?  Do you know that most millionaires are made after the age of fifty-five?  While he cooked chicken for years, it wasn’t until Colonel Sanders was sixty-two that he started Kentucky Fried Chicken.
No matter what limiting belief you hold, there is evidence in the world to the contrary.  Even if there is no one who has ever done what you are passionate about doing, there is abundant evidence of people who have been successfully doing what others thought was impossible.

Your life is created first in your mind then in the world.

As long as you believe you can’t, you won’t be able to.  As long as you believe it’s not possible, it won’t be possible for you.  As long as you believe it’s too hard, it will be too hard for you. So does that mean the opposite is also true, that as long as you believe you can, you’ll be able to?  Yes, and it’s not so simple, because our beliefs run deep.  You can say, “I can do it,” and still not believe you can, deep inside.  This is why affirmations often don’t produce the results we’d like them to.
Keep looking for evidence until you can feel it deep inside and find your purpose in life.  “Of course I can do it.  Look at all the other people who have done it, look at all the evidence there is that this is possible.” This is your first and most important task in living your passions. 

Overcome your fears and live your passions with trust.

As you investigate the thoughts that make you feel afraid, that make you feel unworthy, that make you feel unlovable, you will discover something new growing in you: trust.
Your speed on the cosmic highway is directly related to your ability to trust in the benevolence of the universe.
Change your mind about what you choose to experience in your life.
What feels better, to believe that you are alone in the world, that you have to struggle and strain to get ahead, or to believe you are surrounded by a benevolent universe that is constantly giving you gifts? What feels better, to believe life is hard and difficult and disappointing, or to believe that life is an adventure, an opportunity to explore your own true nature?
When you begin to look for evidence that life is ultimately kind, you will start to find that evidence. When you begin to look for reasons to believe that every experience is a blessing, you will start to find those reasons.
As you begin to embrace the idea that life is here for your joy, that every moment is a gift, showing you the path to fulfillment, you will discover magic happening in your life.

7 Tips to Attain Peace of Mind (By Junaid Tahir)



When you were child you had a pure mind; the mind which was free from worries and anxieties. As the time passed, you were influenced by several social, personal, familial and official crises such as financial complications, broken relationship, lack of trust, joblessness, failure in business, loss of respect and so on. When the mind is stressful, the associated germs of negativity, jealousy and pessimism add fuel to fire and hence your pure mind becomes impure. These impurities if taken out can bring back the mental purity hence real spirit of joy of childhood can be attained up to an adequate level.  Off course you cannot fix all of your problem at once but you can train your mind to develop the skills which can help either bypass or overcome the depressed  and tragic situations so as to give you a big time relaxation while you focus on the solution to your problems. Below are some techniques which can be used to combat the peace stealing triggers: